Meet a true embodiment of the saying, “Curiosity leads to enlightenment.” Our guest, once a skeptic with little knowledge of chakras, has now become a Master Teacher of Sekhem—a profound healing practice. Without the usual trappings of a spiritual guru, they describe themselves not as an expert or healer, but as a helper, using the methods that once aided them to now assist others. Their healing journey began unexpectedly in Melbourne, far from family and friends. It was here, amidst the city’s parks, that a serendipitous encounter with a sickly tree changed everything. This moment of connection, when they instinctively hugged the tree, marked the beginning of an awakening to the interconnectedness of all life. Join Mystic Mag as we delve into this extraordinary narrative of transformation, exploring how a newfound awareness of nature’s subtle energies has guided them to a life of helping others.
Your journey into the metaphysical world began with a simple act of hugging a tree. Can you share more about that moment and how it shaped your path as an energy healer?
Hugging a tree was a very foreign idea to me, something I might have seen in a movie. In fact, trees themselves were foreign to me because, in Hong Kong, where I’m from, there are trees, but Hong Kong specializes in growing buildings and shops. These were my comfort zones, and I can tell you, it’s like trees never existed in my consciousness. But then something happened. I hugged a tree when I was in Melbourne.
I had quit my job and started living with my husband, who is Greek-Australian. We met in Greece and then lived in London, but we had to spend some time in Melbourne for his work. Without a job or anything to do, I spent a lot of time in a park near where we were staying. I would read a book or do nothing, pretending I was one of the locals because, in Hong Kong, people don’t hang out in parks—only old people do. Our parks don’t have grass where people sit; it’s a very different culture.
The trees in Melbourne’s park were huge, old, and gorgeous, except for one. It had a big trunk but only stick-like branches. I noticed this tree every time I was there. One day, I was in the park with my husband, who grew up in the area and seemed like an expert in trees to me. I asked him why this tree looked the way it did, and he said it was sick. Without thinking, I went and hugged it.
Before meeting my husband, I didn’t even know how to hug. I learned to hug after meeting his family, especially his mother, sister, and female friends. Hugging the tree felt natural, but many thoughts raced through my mind. I worried about becoming one of those people who hug trees and what others might think if they saw me. Was I losing my mind? What would my mom say? How long should I hug it? No one taught me how to hug a tree.
That moment shaped my metaphysical journey significantly. After that, many ideas came to me, and I acted on them. For example, I bought my first stone shortly after. I also started meditating, though I was terrible at it. I read that having a moldavite would help with meditation, so I bought one. It didn’t help with meditation, but it gave me strange dreams that accurately reflected my friends’ lives. When I shared these dreams, my friends confirmed their accuracy.
I returned to the shop where I bought the moldavite, and the woman who sold it to me said not everyone could handle a moldavite. If it didn’t want to stay with me, it would go away. At the time, I thought she was talking funny, but I wished it were true. I followed whatever the moldavite seemed to tell me to do. With nothing to lose and nothing else to do, I tried everything.
When we moved back to London, I decided to learn something new. I researched a healer who had helped me in Melbourne and discovered that she practiced Sekhem healing. She had told me about ancient Egypt where Sekhem originated from, so I found a teacher in London. Initially, I didn’t think I could learn it, believing it was for special people, but the teacher assured me I could, and I did.
This openness to new experiences became an advantage for me. Many people fear meditation and metaphysical subjects because they are so different. But having left Hong Kong and adapted to various cultural changes, I found that learning to hug a human, a tree, speak a foreign language, or even communicate with a rock or spirit were just strange things I had to do. I enjoyed them, and they became natural to me.
I never know how these ideas come to me, but I always think, “There’s no harm, I’m not going to get hurt,” and I take action to see what happens.
You describe yourself as a helper rather than a healer. What inspired you to adopt this perspective, and how does it influence your approach to working with clients?
One of the first things my Sekhem teacher, Lina, drilled into my head was that we do not heal people. We are not healers, even though people use this term because it’s convenient and well-known. She said we are channels of Sekhem. Sekhem is both the modality and the name of the energy that we channel. She said we’re like the pipe or hose that allows water to come through, and nothing more.
When I was practicing as an apprentice, one of my practice clients sent me an email with the subject “energy healer.” I thought she wanted to tell me about an energy healer she had visited, but the email was actually addressed to her friend, recommending me. When I saw this client again, I asked her why she called me an energy healer, as I had never called myself that. She looked at me, very confused, and said, “Yeah, but that’s what you are, isn’t it?” I replied, “No, I feel more like an energy cleaner.”
I think it’s a very accurate description when I facilitate a Sekhem treatment. I channel Sekhem, and the client essentially takes the energy from me; I never put anything into the body. The rest is always cleaning or clearing—clearing blocks, chemicals, thought forms, or even stored emotions and entities. These are all forms of cleaning to me. The healing happens within the client’s body, with their higher self. The body is very intelligent, including the emotional and mental bodies. It’s always up to the client, not me. I give it a clean and channel energy to give them a boost, but it really relies on the client to heal themselves. As my teacher said, it’s not me doing it; I’m only a channel.
When I started doing hypnosis, specifically Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT), which allows clients to explore their consciousness, see past lives, and communicate with their higher selves and guides, I didn’t do any cleaning. I just talked to them. Hypnosis is all about talking. During the session, I listen, ask questions, and the clients tell me things; I just listen. So, I’m not providing healing or doing the cleaning.
I see myself as a helper, but not in the sense that my clients need help because everyone is fine. Even those who are sick carry on with their lives. People face many challenges and have a lot of trauma, but they are strong. They see their potential to be even better and come to me or other practitioners. I assist them because people don’t need to do everything on their own. Everyone wants help sometimes, and that’s what I do. I assist them like a guide.
There are times when clients are very appreciative and tell me how I’ve helped them. I always make sure to let them know it’s them, not me. I’ve learned and practiced techniques because I’m passionate and curious. I give my time, but they can do it without me. I cannot help them if they are not the ones taking charge of their lives. It’s important for me to remember my role so I can remind my clients of their amazing potential. They don’t need anybody, but having someone to guide them or give them a helping hand so they don’t have to do everything on their own all the time is valuable. But what really helps them is their dedication and determination.
What type of services do you offer?
I facilitate Sekhem treatments both in person and remotely. Sekhem is an energy and modality that was used in ancient Egypt. I also teach all levels of Sekhem. If you’re interested in experiencing this energy, you can sign up for my newsletter. I prepare a Sekhem Pyramid Transmission for each of my newsletter subscribers, and they can request to receive it during the moon cycle. I publish my newsletter on the first day of every month, following the Chinese calendar, which always falls on the new moon.
I also perform land and property healing with Sekhem. I specifically include the land in the name because I always provide healing for a large area surrounding the actual property. This is an area where people need to be more conscious because the land and where we live affect us more than we can imagine.
I facilitate three types of hypnosis that involve consciousness exploration. One of them is QHHT (Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique), created by the late Dolores Cannon. Another is BQH (Beyond Quantum Healing), created by Candace Craw-Goldman, one of Dolores’s most trusted students and assistants. A typical session involves my clients telling me about their life, symptoms they are experiencing, and questions they want to ask their higher self or spirit guides. The actual hypnosis portion usually involves them experiencing their past lives and then having their higher selves or spirit guides come through to answer questions and provide healing.
The third type of consciousness exploration hypnosis I offer is called The Divine Reveal. It was created by Roos Malka Ahern who was inspired by Anita Moorjani’s near-death experience and her miraculous healing from stage 4 lymphoma. The aim of this modality is to bring clients to the realm where Anita journeyed during her NDE, allowing their pure essence to express itself unhindered. This often results in clients moving towards health on all levels and experiencing profound spiritual growth. This experience, which many spend years trying to achieve through meditation, can be accessed easily through hypnosis, making it easier for clients to practice returning to this state.
Finally, I offer Quantum Pain Relief, which helps people alleviate pain. We use a special process to identify the stuck emotion causing the client’s pain and then eliminate it together. This method is simple, effective, and often feels like magic.
As a Master Teacher for Sekhem, what are some of the core principles of this energy healing method, and how do you integrate them into your practice?
There are currently two lineages of Sekhem, and I am part of the Helen Belôt lineage. Helen didn’t exactly create Sekhem; she remembered it. She was like a self-taught healer because she recalled being a high priestess in ancient Egypt during the Golden Age, as she called it. She remembered and started using it to help people.
She was helping people and wanted to learn more to help them better. So, she sought out a teacher who taught Seichim. The teacher told her, “Hang on, you’re not channeling Seichim. What you’re doing is too much; it’s too destructive. You should not use it; it’s too powerful.” Helen thought she had been helping people, so it couldn’t be a bad thing. When you go to a teacher and they say what you do is no good, it’s disheartening. But she didn’t give up. She found another teacher in the States. This teacher also said, “Helen, you are not channeling Seichim, but what you have is very powerful. Do your own thing and share it because it is very important.” With this blessing, Helen continued her studies and exploration. Eventually, people asked her to teach them, and she did.
I cannot compare Sekhem to any other energy healing modality because I don’t know any others, but there are a few things I really like about Sekhem. One is that on the first page of the manual, Helen wrote that this is not a textbook we need to memorize; it is only a manual to trigger our memories. She believed that when we come to learn Sekhem, we have all done it in our previous lives. She encouraged us to learn as it is taught but also to explore what we already know. If we find that we want to do things differently, we have her blessing. However, she asked us to be honest. If I do things differently and a client asks, I would say, “Yes, I’m doing it a different way than I was taught because this is more natural for me.” We don’t need to sneak if we want to change things.
As teachers, we are asked to always teach Sekhem as we were taught, so everyone has the basic foundation and we don’t contaminate the energy source. This is also why we are asked to be selective in choosing students. We should not take in every student who wants to learn. It’s not about judging them, but Sekhem is a very high-vibration energy. Once we initiate a student, the energy always comes through them. Because of this, students must purify themselves to match the energy.
When someone is interested in learning Sekhem from me, I have a meeting with them. The meeting is free, but I want to make sure they know what they are signing up for, that they are genuine in wanting to learn and evolve, and that we like each other enough. The course is only two days, and they will have a lot of questions. I want to ensure we are compatible so they will feel comfortable asking me questions.
The “What is Love?” video series on your YouTube channel features simple healing experiments. Can you describe one of these experiments and its intended impact on participants?
I call these experiments, although they are like healing tools, because they often come to me spontaneously. I think, “What if I try this?” and they become experiments for me. I encourage viewers to always stay curious about themselves. Everything I talk about is free, so let’s just try it.
One of my favorite and most impactful experiments is Day 25: Nurture. It’s all about tending to our wounds, whether they are physical or non-physical. A physical wound could be something like accidentally hitting my head against a wall, while a non-physical wound could be feeling hurt because someone called my head ugly. The technique is very simple and involves three things: attention, physical touch, and singing.
First, identify where it hurts. For a physical wound, this is straightforward. For a non-physical wound, it could be your head if someone said it was ugly, your heart, your soul, your ego, or anywhere you feel discomfort when thinking about the incident. Focus your attention on that area.
Next, apply physical touch. For a physical wound on your arm, place your hand on your arm. People do this instinctively; if they hit their arm, they rub it. For non-physical wounds, touch where you feel the hurt—your heart, your head, or even your inner child. If you’re unsure where to touch, I suggest the stomach, because it’s where we nurture ourselves with food, and people often react to emotional hurt by either overeating or not eating.
Finally, sing. Singing produces healing effects through sound and helps alleviate feelings of victimhood. This concept of victim feelings is more important than the technique itself. Our bodies produce emotions to help us, but feeling like a victim can immobilize us and make us procrastinate. People often say negative things about feeling like a victim, telling others to just move on. But moving on is hard when you feel like a victim, and indeed, you are a victim because you were hurt.
I’ve noticed that when we are hurt, it’s not the time to move forward. It’s time to stay put and nurture ourselves. Many people neglect this, quickly tending to the physical wound and rushing back to work, or worse, berating themselves for trusting the wrong person, etc. Instead of nurturing themselves, they do the opposite.
In nature, animals don’t berate themselves when they get hurt. My dog once ran into a lamp post while chasing a ball. He didn’t feel embarrassed or call himself stupid. He simply stopped, licked his wound, and continued until it healed.
This experiment teaches that it’s okay to feel like a victim and to honor those feelings. If someone calls another person fat and they feel fine, that’s okay. But if I feel hurt about my broken nail, I should give it loving attention instead of dismissing my feelings.
When I tried this experiment on myself and with friends, I found incredible results. We try hard to release anger or fear, but when we nurture ourselves this way, we don’t have to deal with anger or fear directly. Love takes care of it. This is why I want to highlight this experiment here.
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What is Love: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8O2P2FULfk
