Connie Fusella’s journey as a psychic medium is deeply intertwined with her three near-death experiences, each awakening her intuitive gifts and guiding her toward her true calling. In this interview, she shares how these profound encounters shaped her understanding of the afterlife, strengthened her connection to the spiritual realm, and ultimately led her to help others find healing and reassurance. From evidential messages from spirits to her insights on strengthening one’s own connection with the other side, Connie offers a fascinating glimpse into the unseen world.
How did your three near-death experiences shape your understanding of the afterlife and strengthen your abilities as a psychic medium?
I am a natural-born medium and started seeing and hearing spirit at the young age of four, but when I began elementary school these extrasensory abilities subsided and eventually I forgot about them. My three near-death experiences were all instrumental in awakening my intuitive gifts in an attempt to guide my soul back to its true destiny of becoming a psychic medium.
The first NDE occurred in my early twenties in the form of a life review and shortly afterwards I began experiencing frequent episodes of sleep paralyses. During these episodes, I would see myself come out of my body in spirit form and try to lift my physical body up from the bed as a voice in my head would repeat the phrase “you need to raise yourself up.” It wasn’t until much later in life that I became a practicing medium and understood this voice to be my soul literally trying to awaken the spiritual gifts I was born with by telling me to raise myself up, meaning I needed to raise my vibration to facilitate communication with the spiritual realm.
During my second NDE, I experienced travelling through a bright tunnel and upon reaching the end, my feet touched into the “glow.” Soon after this NDE, I began hearing information or seeing images pertaining to people when I came close to them which sparked a curiosity to explore the metaphysical world, psychics and working with tarot cards. My third NDE resulted in meeting Jesus, and I was told that it wasn’t my time to be in the Afterlife yet because I hadn’t become the person that I was supposed to be. I didn’t understand this message but shortly after this experience, I received a random invitation to participate in a psychic fair as a tarot card reader.
I purchased a deck of tarot cards shortly after my second NDE but became quickly frustrated with them as I tried to study the meanings of the cards and did not feel a connection to them and so I tucked the tarot cards away in a storage chest where they remained for over ten years until I received the invitation to the psychic fair event. I had not yet performed a reading, nor did I know the meanings of the tarot cards, but I agreed to do the event.
When providing my first reading at the psychic fair, I nervously put the tarot cards into various small piles on the table and suddenly an electric shock came through the top of my head and reverberated throughout my body filling me with a strange energy. I began speaking and somehow knew many very specific details about my client. My three NDE’s all occurred to guide me to my soul’s true destiny of becoming a psychic medium and being a bridge for the bereaved between the physical and spiritual realms.
Even though my three experiences with the Afterlife were very different in format, they shared the common theme of feeling nothing but love, acceptance, beauty, and peace in that spiritual realm. I never felt afraid or sad and during my second NDE as I travelled through the tunnel towards the glow at the end, I remember feeling excited and full of joy and anticipation as if I was finally journeying home.
What is the most profound or unexpected message you’ve ever received from a spirit during a reading?
One of the reasons that I love being a medium is that I am constantly learning from the spirit world. I’m truly amazed by the intelligence, cleverness and even persistence Spirit displays when communicating details via imagery, names, memories, physical traits, personalities, medical illnesses, surgeries, and so much more, to prove without a doubt to their loved ones that it is really them.
Communicating with young children in spirit is always a profound experience for me as they convey evidential details as if they were much older. I was fascinated to learn that a two-year old child can communicate just as effectively as someone in their eighties, because the soul is ageless. Some of my favorite evidence in readings entail messages of events or occurrences that happened after the person passed proving that they are watching over us and still very much part of our lives, just in a different way.
When I first started providing mediumistic readings, I was surprised when animals came through for their owners but communicating with dogs, cats, horses, lizards, birds, and various other beloved pets is common in my reading sessions.
How does being certified by the Forever Family Foundation (FFF) and Helping Parents Heal (HPH) influence your approach to mediumship?
Being a Medium comes with a great deal of responsibility to your client, Spirit, and yourself. I hold myself to a very high moral and ethical code in my spiritual practice, as I understand that it is my soul’s true purpose to provide healing to the bereaved. All of my readings are done from a place of love, light and compassion and I am honored to be a certified Medium affiliated with both the FFF and HPH organizations lending credibility and authenticity to my mediumistic abilities.
Anyone seeking out a Medium should do their research and due diligence to ensure that the Medium is credible in order to avoid fraudsters and a negative experience to their emotional well-being. The Forever Family Foundation and Helping Parents Heal organizations both provide listings of tested and certified Mediums as well as many other resources and events for those experiencing the loss of a loved one.
What do you hope readers take away from your book YOU ARE SOUL BEAUTIFUL A Unique Perspective Into the Soul’s Quest for Its Destiny, and how does it reflect your journey as a medium?
Authoring You Are Soul Beautiful was part of my spiritual journey and soul’s evolution, and I feel very fortunate to have discovered my soul’s true purpose through my near-death experiences, the awakening of my intuitive gifts and personal trials and tribulations.
My soul’s true purpose is to not only be a bridge between the physical and spiritual realms, but to also provide hope and assurance to others that there is indeed a beautiful Afterlife, and prove our consciousness survives physical death through evidential mediumistic readings. By sharing heartfelt stories of my personal experiences with death and grief, I hope to convince the skeptics that the bonds of love are eternal and can never be broken.
Offering my unique and insightful perspective on “The Soulitudes” will hopefully motivate and assist others in better understanding and navigating their own soul’s journey. My wish is that reading You Are Soul Beautiful will inspire others to reflect on the various experiences, synchronicities, signs, and people in their lives that helped to shape the person that they have become and have a better understanding of what they need to do to become the person they want to be.
What advice do you have for people who want to strengthen their own connection with the spirit world?
When working with any sensory or energy-related modality, you should begin with preparing yourself mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally. Spiritual hygiene in the form of self-love, self-care and self-discovery is very important. Engaging in various mindful and physical activities that quiet your mind and relax your body such as meditation, walking, listening to music, reading, and relaxing in nature will lift your vibration and help you to better connect with your higher self, spirit guides, or the spiritual realm. Absolutely do more of what makes your soul happy!
If you are considering becoming a practicing Medium, then I would strongly suggest learning under the guidance of a reputable teacher. I offer various virtual and on-line mediumship development workshops through my spiritual practice.
To learn more about Connie and her work, please check below:
Website: www.meaningfulmessages.info
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: @psychicmediumconniefusella
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