MysticMag has the absolute pleasure of chatting with Hilary Porta, a corporate refugee turned Life Architect helping those master human conditioning, emotional intelligence, conscious leadership, and relationship dynamics to expand, evolve and elevate to the next level. Offering a broad range of business management consulting services, Hilary does more than help drive strategy, talent management, marketplace positioning, scaling, profitability and sustainability. She goes deep…to help ignite and awaken to become heart-centered and aligned with their calling. Trusted by start-ups to Fortune 500 CEOs, industry titans, professional athletes, motorsports professionals, Hollywood film producers and actors/influencers, members of elite military forces, higher education, financial advisors, attorneys, high-performance professionals and serial entrepreneurs globally to build a life and business with intention and purpose. With a focus on unblocking mindset and facilitating personal and professional evolution, Hilary is dedicated to leaving a generational imprint through transformative coaching and mentoring.
Hilary, can you share more about your approach to helping individuals “awaken, amplify, and architect” a career and life they love?
I feel deeply humbled and honored to walk alongside individuals in their sacred journey of evolution, elevation, healing, and spiritual expansion. My work is focused on helping people show up mentally, emotionally, physically, relationally, financially and spiritually. As a founder of several businesses, one of which is a boutique bespoke coaching and consulting practice, I “get to” serve a variety of clients, yet they all share a common desire to reach their next level of success. I firmly believe in the importance of inner work, as success achieved without alignment with one’s soul can lead to challenges.
While I employ a formulaic approach that has helped many clients achieve significant financial success, I am also dedicated to ensuring that they are aligned mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. This holistic approach ignites a sacred fire within them, enabling them to expand and thrive.
With nearly three decades of experience in this field, including 15 years of running my own private practice, I am deeply committed to helping individuals tune into their true alignment, allowing them to create a ripple effect of generational impact.
How do you incorporate neuropsychology and ancient wisdom into your work with clients?
I am deeply committed to embracing a holistic approach to personal transformation, recognizing that we are multidimensional beings. By integrating modern scientific knowledge with ancient traditions, we can create a comprehensive framework for addressing mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. I believe in delving deeply into topics that some may consider “woo woo,” or “new age” which is in actuality ancient wisdom.Simply put, I’ve personally witnessed from both a scientific and spirituality aspect the power of thoughts and the concept that thoughts become things.
Studying under esteemed mentors like Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Bruce Lipton, and various shamans from around the world has enriched my understanding of the human experience. I have learned various practices, from metaphysical anatomy, meditation, breathwork and visualization to rewiring/coding and shamanism, that can help individuals subconsciously shift their thoughts and beliefs thus creating a new reality.
One of the key aspects of my approach is to help people examine their foundational beliefs and conditioning, as these deeply influence their thoughts, emotions, and even their genes and cellular functioning. I often use metaphysical anatomy to understand and heal the body, as our bodies keep score of our experiences and emotions.
I approach healing with humility, understanding that I am not the one who heals others, but rather a guide who walks alongside them as they heal themselves. This perspective allows me to honor the innate capacity for self-healing that we all possess.
I recall a poignant experience with a surgeon from Chicago who contacted me about his recent diagnosis of glaucoma. Despite his medical background and plans for surgery, we explored the emotional roots of his condition, particularly his relationship with his father. Through our session, we were able to heal a deep childhood wound then reorient and rewire his subconscious beliefs. A week later, he tearfully called me to share that his follow-up exam showed no trace of glaucoma. While I don’t claim to be a healer, experiences like these reaffirm my belief in the power of holistic approaches to healing.
What advice do you have for individuals looking to make a significant change in their lives but feel stuck or unsure of where to start?
I often encounter individuals who have explored various healing modalities, spent years in therapy, and invested heavily in holistic treatments, yet still find themselves searching for true healing. It’s a reality that may not be popular to acknowledge, but it’s important to be honest. I encourage everyone to ask, whether to God, spirit, or the universe, to guide them to the right person who can truly walk alongside them on their healing journey.
I’ve met individuals who have spent tens of thousands of dollars and reached their breaking point because they had a deep desire to heal but lacked the necessary tools. It’s essential to do your homework and due diligence when seeking help. Interview potential healers or therapists to ensure their approach resonates with you and that you feel a genuine energetic connection with them.
Creating a sacred and safe space for healing is crucial, and I wouldn’t wish anyone to fall into the trap of being taken advantage of. So, my advice to those seeking life-changing healing is to be discerning and thorough in your search for the right support.
How do you approach helping clients overcome self-sabotage and imposter syndrome to achieve their goals?
I find this question fascinating – often, we’re unaware of what we don’t know, and this lack of awareness stems from various conditioning—from early childhood to societal influences—that keeps us stuck in what I call a karmic loop. It’s like being on a hamster wheel, where self-sabotage and impostor syndrome keep us playing small, hindering our ability to scale our businesses and fostering toxic relationships. My approach is to first examine belief systems and personal narratives. For example, if someone doesn’t value themselves due to past trauma, they may continue to attract unhealthy relationships. By understanding the origins of these beliefs, we can rewire them. I work with many high-profile individuals, including celebrities and professional athletes, and it’s interesting to see that deep down, there’s often a scared 8-year-old child in everyone. I believe that by knowing and loving oneself, we can overcome impostor syndrome and embrace our true worth as divine beings.
In what ways do you believe your work helps leave a generational impact?
For me, the essence of my work lies in the profound opportunity to assist individuals in rewiring their lives, shifting their perspectives, and aligning with their true selves. The ripple effect of such transformation is profound. As the saying goes, “hurt people hurt people, healed people heal people.” This transformation is not just individual; it has the power to transcend generations.
Reflecting on my journey of nearly a decade in this deep spiritual work, I realize the impact it could have had on my own children if I had been more aware and conscious when they were young. Nevertheless, our paths unfold uniquely, and my approach now differs significantly from what it might have been then. Witnessing the generational shifts in the lives of my clients over the past decade has been incredibly rewarding. I’ve been fortunate to witness the trajectory of their lives, seeing how they ebb and flow, and the impact they have had on their relationships.
One example that stands out is a corporate client who was experiencing a mass exodus of employees due to the CEO’s lack of emotional intelligence. After a deep dive into the corporate culture and implementing a long-term cultural reorganization, we managed to turn the company around. This success led to a more profound revelation about the CEO’s personal life. Often, individuals in such high-level positions find their marriages and relationships with their children to be transactional, lacking depth and connection. Through our work together, this CEO was able to not only transform his company but also his personal life. His marriage became more meaningful, and he became a more present and engaged father.
It’s moments like these that remind me of the profound impact we can have on each other’s lives. Healing is not just about individual transformation; it’s about creating a ripple effect of healing that extends to future generations. Seeing families heal and break free from destructive patterns is the most fulfilling aspect of my work. It’s about leaving a legacy of love, connection, and healing that transcends time.
If you would like to find out more about Hilary Porta, please visit https://hporta.com/
